The Principle of Balance in Hellinger’s Orders of Love
Unlocking the Power of Language in Relationships
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We are excited to announce the release of Sasha Riess’s latest white paper, “Principle of Balance in Hellinger’s Orders of Love.” This insightful article delves into Bert Hellinger’s profound teachings, focusing on the crucial distinction between “taking” and “receiving.”
Words Carry Energy
As Lakoff & Johnson (1980) eloquently state, “Words resonate—they carry energy and shape meaning beyond their definitions.” The language we choose not only influences our thoughts but also profoundly affects our emotions and responses. This concept is pivotal when engaging with Hellinger’s work, originally crafted in German. Translating his concepts into English can introduce subtle shifts in meaning, potentially leading to misunderstandings (Baker, 2018).
The Crucial Distinction: Taking vs. Receiving
In Hellinger’s framework, “taking” is a deliberate and active act, embodying ownership, courage, and responsibility. Unfortunately, it is often mistranslated as “receiving,” which conveys a more passive and dependent tone in English. This linguistic nuance is more than just semantic—it reveals a deeper emotional and energetic difference that shapes how we relate to others and navigate our lives.
Why This Matters
Misinterpreting “taking” as “receiving” can lead to relational imbalances, fostering dependency and emotional strain. Sasha Riess’s white paper clarifies this distinction, emphasizing the transformative potential of embracing “taking” as an active, responsible practice. By doing so, individuals can achieve personal empowerment, relational harmony, and break free from unhealthy patterns of dependency.
Key Insights Include:
- Linguistic Precision: Understanding how translation impacts the interpretation of Hellinger’s principles.
- Active Engagement: The benefits of adopting an active stance in relationships through “taking.”
- Personal and Relational Growth: Strategies for fostering balance and mutual respect in your interactions.
- Healing and Empowerment: How embracing “taking” can lead to deeper personal resilience and healthier connections.
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Don’t miss this essential read for anyone passionate about personal growth, relationship dynamics, and the authentic application of Hellinger’s Orders of Love. Discover how the simple yet profound shift from “receiving” to “taking” can transform your relationships and enhance your life’s harmony.
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